In most cases, when we get tired of the other person, we usually choose to leave the relationship, but most don’t. More often than not, people either wait for the relationship to die down naturally, or they wait until it’s more convenient for them to leave the other. The relationship portal “Your Tango” has compiled 11 signs that indicate that you are tired of your other half.
If you have found yourself in such a situation, it might be important for you to know what signs indicate that he is tired of you and your relationship.
Is he tired of me?
The only sure way to know how the other person feels is to ask them about it, but what if you’re not sure yet and don’t want to talk about it?
These nonverbal cues can help you gauge whether you’re stuck in a passionless relationship and it might be time to break up for good.
1. He is aloof
Any kind of display of affection or discussion seems to annoy, repulse or anger him.
When a person really gets bored, they don’t want to see that person. If you have become an obvious source of negative emotions in the other, he may be tired of you being around.
2. He jokes about hurting you
People’s jokes often reveal what’s really on their mind. If he regularly jokes about hitting you or otherwise hurting you, there’s a good chance he’s really mad at you so much that he thinks about it regularly.
3. You feel uneasy around him
You feel like you have to tiptoe around him to keep the relationship going. A good way to find out if he’s tired of you too is to check your gut. If you feel like you have to handle everything carefully so that he doesn’t get angry, then it’s quite possible that you’re fed up with him.
4. He doesn’t talk to you about relationship problems
He used to complain or try to talk about problems in the relationship, but now he has stopped doing that. Most girls see the sudden stop of complaining as a good thing, but it’s often a sign that the relationship is dead.
If a man tries to talk to you about something that seriously worries him, he still believes that the relationship can be saved. If he stops talking about it, it’s because he’s done trying to make the relationship better.
5. He has an icy cold attitude
Have you ever had to work with someone you hated? If yes, then you probably already knew that it is very difficult not to be cold towards him. If a man has an ice-cold attitude towards you these days, it could be one of the signs that he is tired of you.
6. He has become consistently selfish
Generally speaking, once a guy has completely ended the relationship, it starts to become all about him. He’ll only talk to you when it’s convenient for you, and he’ll probably become super selfish in bed, and you won’t be at the top of his priorities anymore.
7. He gets mad at you for no reason
Does he get angry regularly over the smallest thing? This is not a good sign. At best he’s fed up with you, but at worst you’re dealing with a violent person. This is a sure sign that it is time to end the relationship.
8. If you try to talk to a man about his attitude and he pushes you away or even “explodes”
A man who still wants the relationship to last will talk everything out and do whatever it takes to make the relationship between the two of you survive. On the other hand, a man who is completely fed up with you will not.
The reason for this is that he will no longer see the point in talking to you about it. If you can’t get answers from him or if he ignores you, it’s a sign that the relationship needs to end.
9. His friends who were once warm towards you have started treating you with hatred
This is a bad sign. If this happens, it means that he has been talking about you to his friends, and what he is saying about you is not nice at all.
When this happens, your relationship with his friends is permanently damaged, which means that the relationship between the two of you is unlikely to be salvageable anytime soon.
10. He spends less time with you
It used to be that you were close or connected, but now it’s literally a struggle to get him to text you back, and he’s constantly canceling dates at the last minute. Does it sound familiar to you? If so, it’s a sign that he’s done with you.
11. He has asked to be allowed to “take time for himself”
We all know what it means when a man wants to “take time for himself”. The need for personal “space” is normal for every couple. But if your partner doesn’t want to spend time with you, it means that you will most likely have to break up.
What if you feel like he’s tired of you and the relationship?
Suzanne Pazak, clinical psychologist and relationship expert, states, “A partner who is tired in a relationship is a common complaint I hear in both individual sessions and couples coaching sessions. The first step is to talk about your concerns and feelings. Recognizing your partner’s fatigue will allow you to for you to gather information and gain insight into what’s causing you concern in the relationship. It’s important to dig deep and ask your partner, ‘What are you tired of?'”
Once the situation is identified, it is a problem with a solution, and change can begin.
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