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Hello reader! I am the editor-in-chief of LA.LV, I took care of my daughter Alisa throughout 2023 and now I am back at work. Of course, my first opinion piece will be about children, or rather real horror stories from kindergartens. After work, walking with a baby asleep in a pram, I pass one kindergarten, here I see mothers following their little ones to another, and I understand that my time will soon come. We love and take care of our dearest ones, but then there is a moment when real life kicks in and the little one has to go out into the world, if only for a few hours in a controlled, safe environment. But how safe is it if the child falls from the mother’s warm hands into the hands of real, living monsters? Here are a couple of cases that keep me up at night. These are all real moms’ stories that make me wonder, exactly what kind of people are looking after our children?
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Once, the nanny did not allow a five-year-old girl to go to the toilet during the diendusa, because “right now you have to sleep, so you’re going to suffer”.
Later, the child, either out of shame, condemnation, not wanting to be reprimanded and angry at him again, began to suffer and not go to the toilet during the rest of the day, causing serious health problems. It also happened to weep during the night in bed like a small child. One stupid remark to a child has now resulted in an injury that cannot be called otherwise.
In another kindergarten, while getting dressed to go out, the nanny saw that a five-year-old boy’s pants were a little dirty after playing, and out of anger at how messy the child was, she tore off the boy’s pants up to his knees in front of everyone and shouted: “Well, then you can’t wear those pants at all!” ”
The boy was not aggressive, he did not make pranks, did not talk back to the nanny and did not raise others. He just had his pants down.
This case was reported to the principal, who did not see anything special in this public shaming of the child. Really? I would recommend that both of them, with the nanny, welcome moms and dads in their underwear at the next parents’ meeting and see how well they feel.
We have also heard several stories about religious nannies who pull witches’ hats off their children’s heads on Halloween, otherwise they end up in hell and no one will celebrate such a pagan holiday here. Someone else once even dared to put on the tights that the mother had put on the child in the morning, because the ones the nanny provided would look better in the joint photo. These are just a few examples that make us think about the safety of our children when we are not around.
If a parent has a complaint about the psychotic outbursts of a nanny or educator, but the principal replies that the case has been examined, there are no violations, what should be done? Change kindergarten? It is always possible to do so, and if the responsible person in this institution creates unpleasant feelings and really threatens the child’s emotional safety, it is necessary to say goodbye to the new friends and change the kindergarten.
It is the duty of every mother to protect her child, but what about the saying that there are no strangers’ children? The other goons will stay there with those monsters.
It is a fear that is hard to get rid of.
Looking at such cases more broadly, I want to ask why these people work with children? I have one pretty close to perfect perfect year old at home and there are days when I want to pull my hair out and jump out the window, but that’s normal because kids teach us patience. And I’m still learning, but precisely because I don’t have this patience, I would never in my life think of applying for a job in a preschool educational institution. Salaries are not good there, you have to spend everyday with dozens of small children. It is a greater responsibility than a surgeon. If this is not this person’s calling, if small children do not bring him happiness and fulfillment, why is he working there? I will never understand that.
I guess the first job is to be a good mother and encourage the child to talk about everything, good and bad things, so that the little one wants to tell me, even if someone has hurt him or wronged him. The second job is not to be silent for us, mothers, and if the child has really been wronged, not to be afraid and write submissions, report to the relevant authorities! As well as talking about it in public. If you also have a bad experience story or, on the contrary, a conflict that resulted in a good outcome, feel free to share your story, I write to [email protected].
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